Thursday, February 5, 2009

Today

*photo taken on her 7th birthday this past June, at her cousin's house (she had just learned how to appreciate goggles!)*

Today -

1) MamaBear (my alter-ego, when MommyBear is not as relaxed as she should be!) took half a day off of work to go to NBear's annual IEP.

2) MamaBear and the Huz found out that NBear has met many of the academic goals that her IEP had stated. *yeah*...although we heard the usual, "She is great at reading, BUT needs work with comprehension!" (So do my 4th graders....I thought to myself...)

3) We reiterated the need to keep her on a GFCF diet, and that she could not indulge in the same snacks her other classmates had, if they contained the dreaded ingredients. This was the part I hated because we had to bring up the whole biomeds program, since her principal and BMT supervisor were there - (You know, the Jenny McCarthy story? Oh, I see you're not familiar with it. Well, it is OUTSIDE the umbrella of the typical way people "treat" autism, and it involves believing that your child can make huge gains - which we have definitely seen - with supplements and chelation.......)

Let me just tell you, that no matter how convinced you are that you know what's best for your child, you will always feel like you're saying the wrong thing when you get nods and confused stares in return.


Oh well. :)


4) We learned that she still had her fits during mainstreaming, and would sometimes go to the bathroom and dilly-dally in the hallway to avoid having to do the work that was assigned! Needless to say, the Huz meekly added "I think she got that from me..."



5) I smiled to myself at how far she has come.


6) I thought it'd be nice to share that with you:)




....nite.

3 comments:

Carolyn said...

Don't know why but IEP's always upset my stomach. Glad to hear that it was positive and that you held your own ... that can be tough in the face of so many people who don't believe.

DMV47 said...

I know what you mean about the IEPs! Even as a teacher, and having been at a gazillion of those meetings, it certainly is different when you're on the other side of the table for your OWN child. On another note, ff they want to save money on this whole school budget thing - I'd suggest axing the immense paperwork load that comes with IEPs! *lol*

Joie said...

I'm glad it went well. We miss you guys.